Memorial Day BBQ

We've had many a BBQ with these beloved friends...

unfortunately this will be our last one all together.

Why do people have to graduate and move on?

Can't believe these two were just newborns not long after we all moved here...

and now they're going on four!

Time flies...

and it makes me sad...

The Longest Road I've Ever Traveled...

Infertility.
Let's just cut right to the chase shall we?
Something that I never thought I'd have to deal, something that a LOT of women have to deal with, and something we have HAD to deal with for the last 3 1/2 years.
Hopefully our journey is on it's way out the door-
but my heart aches for those that it has only just begun.
It's a hard road, with ambiguous questions and sometimes no answers.

Two days ago I had surgery to clear out the endometriosis that we think has been causing all the problems.

We've been through all types of fertility treatments this past year and none of them worked- although my body responded well to them.
We knew that I had endometriosis (from a surgery three years ago) and for whatever reason, endometriosis tends to mess things up...
thus my doctor felt like the best thing to do, would be to clean out the endo.
And it's a good thing we did! I had some pretty severe endometriosis going on inside...
The worst part about endometriosis is they dont' know why some women have it, they don't know what causes it, and there's really no cure for it...
Super frustrating.

 They gave my ever patient husband a restaraunt pager to know when I was done with surgery...
"Mr. Brame- your table is ready"

 And I was out the same day.
Feeling pretty good!

 And I had these movies to get me through the days of restlessness ahead!

Now hopefully with some clean insides- we can have another go at fertility treatment.
Sigh.
It's a beast.
I think it's interesting when people think infertility is a taboo subject and one can't talk about their kids or getting pregnant for fear of hurting feelings.
I ALWAYS feel happy when friends or family tell me that they're pregnant...
I ALWAYS feel happy when people tell me about the successes of their kids...
It only makes me sad when women who CAN get pregnant easily take it for granted or act like it's no big deal.
Don't forget, that it's such a beautiful gift.
Hopefully, whether through adoption or other means, this road of infertility will be over for us soon.

Another Year Older and Wiser, Too!

Happy Birthday...

to me!

The big 28 snuck up on us pretty quick this year.

Thankfully the busiest week of school (for me) was the week previous, so we could actually relax and enjoy some birthday time.

We like to get away for birthdays when we can- and this year we got out of the city and headed to the small town of New Braunfels; about 40 minutes outside of San Antonio.

Why New Braunfels?

Good question- it's a small country town but is home to a huge water park, Schlitterbahn.

And to Schlitterbahn we went.

 We brought some friends along with us, the day was beautiful, and we had a great time. We didn't get very many pictures... because our camera is unfortunately not waterproof.

After spending eight hours in the sun and fun we cleaned up and headed to the historic district section of town.

It was so adorable and quaint.

 We wandered  into their antique shop...

 and found some surprises of our own!

We TRIED to be sneaky...

but then just had to take her picture.

She looked ridiculous.

She provided lots of entertainment.

 Which was good- because we had to wait 1.5 hours to get a seat for dinner!

Apparently the old cotton gin on the river is the most popular spot in town to eat.

 

But we were in good company, and they even had live music while we waited...

and it was worth the wait!

They had some delicious food

AND they gave us free strawberry shortcake for my birthday.

Score!

On the way home I tried to be artistic and take a picture through my cheez-it...

but it didn't exactly turned out as hoped.

 We made some birthday salsa...

and ate nearly the entire thing.

 And opened some birthday presents!

 Well- really just one birthday present.

But it was quite the present.

I am so excited to learn how to use this bad boy!

Happy birthday!

It Is MAY!!!!

It is May people.

*Cue "Hallelujah" chorus*

Even though school gets out June 6th,

May signifies the END... 

and the miracle that we've made it this far!

So once again- enjoy some teaching thoughts and moments from Mrs. Brame and company.

10.

April had no days off this year.

Zip. Zero. Zilch. Nada.

I thought for sure I would die.

But somehow... I managed to not use a SINGLE "sick" day all of April.

And I think it's quite an accomplishment.

Go me.

9.

"Mrs. Brame- I'm gonna be famous when I'm older!"

"Oh really? How?"

"I'm gonna find all the rich old men and marry them. Then you'll be seeing me on the news for being a 'professional gold digger'."

"How lovely!"

I don't remember seeing "professional gold digger" as an option in my 9th grade Careers class.

Maybe times have changed?

8.

One day, my student forgot her clothes to dress out in for class.

I have a couple spare things in my office and told her to use some of those pants.

She walked into my office, held up the pants and yells out to me...

"Ms. B! I can't fit into these things! Maybe last year I could, but I done got big! Don't eat at McDonald's Ms. B... this is what will happen to you."

That was probably the most sensible advice I've ever received from a student!

7.

I have a girl in 1st period who swears up a storm.

It just flows out of her mouth and she doesn't think about it and she doesn't catch it.

I get after her all the time.

One day, after hearing her use the F-word... she tried to convince me that it's ok to use that word.

"Mrs. Brame! The F-word actually has scientific meaning so it's ok to use that word!"

"Oh does it? And are you using it scientifically when you curse?"

*awkward sheepish silence*

"No.... you got me."

Girls- cursing is not "curt".

(for reference on putting random "r" sounds in words that don't have them... refer to this post here)

6.

I can't believe I've made it two years of teaching at this school and ONLY have one Beyonce song in my music library.

Go me. 

#iwillnotgiveintobeyoncepeerpressure

5.

There are lots of times when I just shake my head at my students...

When they talk about getting pregnant, like it's a pastime to do on the weekends.

I shake my head.

When I find a nasty weave on top of the paper towel dispenser..

I shake my head.

4.

Spring Show, Spring Show, Spring Show!

It's over!

*breathe*

My classes performed Thursday, Friday and Saturday...

no one told me that getting 100 Dance 1 students in front of 600 people would be so hard!

BUT we had no crying on stage and no major melt downs.

It was definitely a success.

Here are some clips from our dances... 

These are Dance class students that performed Saturday night...

Dance Students from amelia brame on Vimeo.

These are Dance students that wanted to stay extra after school and learn another dance. One of the girls backed out last minute... and instead of re-arranging the whole dance, I just danced in her place!
(the one girl in green pants wasn't supposed to do the fouette turns... but she did them anyway. The punk)

Bollywood Spring Show from amelia brame on Vimeo.

These are the Juniors from the Drill Team...

I choreographed this African dance for them.

  African Jazz from amelia brame on Vimeo.

3.

We'd been talking about Spring Show everyday for the past four months and I got this comment on Thursday... the night of one of our shows...

"Spring Show is TODAY?!?! How come you never told me?"

A part of me wanted to die.

A part of me wanted to cry.

A part of me wanted to strangle someone.

Luckily, neither three happened...

Earlier that same day-

one of my students came up to me and said this:

"Mrs. Brame- I can't be in Spring Show tonight because I am getting my hair done."

"You've known about Spring Show for HOW long and you chose TODAY TO GET YOUR HAIR DONE?!?! Tell you mom to re-schedule your appointment. Spring Show is a part of your final."

"I can't. My mom already said no."

"Why do you have to get your hair done today?"

"It's for Prom..."

"And when is Prom?"

"In two weeks."

A part of me wanted to die.

A part of me wanted to cry.

A part of me wanted to strangle someone.

Luckily, neither three happened.

Instead...

I shook my head.

2.

It's no lie that I wear my hear up in a ponytail or bun everyday.

I probably look frumpy but it's ok.

On our Saturday Spring Show night I showed up with my hair down and in normal clothes.

My students didn't know who I was.

BUT my favorite comment was this...

"Mrs. Brame- you done get weave in your hair?"

And she proceeded to come tug on my hair to see if it would come out.

Ridiculous.

1.

"Yeah... I used to do cheer-leading... but then I found hot dogs."

Best quote ever.

18 school days left my friends!!

THE Storm...

Dear Jon,

Remember that one time we got home from grocery shopping RIGHT as it started raining?

And then remember how that storm turned into the worst storms we'd ever seen?

Remember how the weatherman only predicted a 30% chance of rain?

I tried to be a porch monkey and watch the rainstorm on our balcony... but it was kind of wet.

Remember how you thought I was crazy?

Remember how seconds after I'd come in it started hailing like crazy?

And remember how when we saw our street had become a river, we had to go survey the damages?

Yep... that was a lot of water.

 

Remember how we had plans to go to an outdoor theater that evening?

Yeah... that didn't happen.

Spring has definitely sprung in Houston.

A part of me really loves monsoon season... 

but only when we don't have to drive anywhere or do anything important.